Those two words have generated heated discussion. There was a time when we were told that “tango has no rules.” Eventually we learned that it has rules. Many refuse to respect them. They are no more than guidelines that have been in place for all social dancing for decades. Code is another word for rule. Games have rules, and so does ballroom dancing. Tango is a ballroom dance. Then tango has rules like other social dances. Like any sport, they establish rules of behavior so everyone can enjoy participating.
1. Dress appropriately.
2. Remember personal hygiene.
3. The man invites the woman.
4. The man leads, remains in control, and protects his partner.
5. Respect the line of dance.
6. Be aware of others around you.
7. Do not teach on the floor.
8. Apologize to your partner if you step on her foot, and to other dancers if you interrupt their dancing.
9. Escort your partner off the floor.
10. The floor is for dancing, not for conversation.
These rules are part of all ballroom dance instruction. It’s impossible to learn to dance without learning these rules. And yet, one organizer in Buenos Aires has found it necessary to announce the line-of-dance rule at his milonga and to enforce it to keep disaster from ocurring.
What sets tango apart from other dances are the unwritten codes of personal behavior that are respected by milongueros. I found an interesting list of codes on the internet. I don’t agree with the complete list, but it covers many of the codes observed by milongueros. These codes are disappearing from use because the milongueros are disappearing from the milongas.



Maria Rangolla was born in 1866 in the Basque region of France, hence the name La Vasca . The earliest documentation about her was that she had a dance academia on Pozos and Independencia where she got her start as a dancer in 1884. Maria La Vasca opened her private dance house in 1903, and she was the madam. Rosendo Mendizábal premiered his tango
Mario doesn’t exactly live around the corner from the milongas, so there is no doubt that when he makes the long trip by bus from Quilmes to Lo de Celia he is there to dance. He and Pedro Sanchez used to share a corner table every Sunday at Lo de Celia.
Dancing certainly keeps Ricardo looking younger than his years. In 2000, I bought a camcorder for the purpose of filming the milongueros. Ricardo was the first milonguero we invited talk about his life in tango. His account of the milongas and orchestras lasted two hours in Miguel Angel Balbi’s apartment. There are three 
Club Social y Deportivo Juventud de Belgrano — Virrey Aviles 3153 in Belgrano R
Club Atlético Veléz Sarsfield — Juan B. Justo 9200 — Versalles
Club Atlético Defensores de Chacarita — Elcano 3831 — Chacarita
Club Telegrafo y Crisol Unidos –Saraza 951 — Parque Chacabuco
Circulo Social y Deportivo Sin Rumbo — Tamborini 6157 - Villa Urquiza


