August 27, 1935 –
Pedro used to have a reserved table on Fridays in Club Gricel on La Rioja near San Juan. That is where I danced with him for the first time more than ten years ago. When Pedro retired in July 2000, he started his first class and practica at Salon G.O.N., Pavon 3916 in Boedo. I went and filmed him there. Since then he has organized a practice in several places including Salon Carpanel on Independencia.
I danced a tanda with Pedro in Centro Region Leonesa a few weeks ago. What a pleasure! I didn’t need to dance again that night. One tanda with Pedro satisfied me completely. It’s too bad that foreigners aren’t studying tango, vals and milonga con traspie with Pedro.
There is finally a video of Pedro on YouTube with 500+ views already, thanks to Tina Ferrari of Seattle. He and Alejandro Gee organized a milonga in Club Buenos Aires on Peru for the last three months, but they closed it a few weeks ago.
I have met Pedro’s wife and two daughters. He’s a gentleman and fine tango dancer who knows how to transmit his dancing. I encourage teachers to learn from him…before it’s too late. Pedro is interested in traveling to the United States, but first he needs a contract from someone who will sponsor him and petition for his work permit and visa.
Pedro participated in Milongueando 2009 held in Buenos Aires. Unfortunately, he didn’t dance with a partner with whom he could demonstrate his talent as a dancer.
Pedro appeared in the documentary El Ultimo Bandoneon which premiered in Buenos Aires movie theaters in October 2006. It is available on DVD at music stores. Pedro has interesting things to say about the milonga, women, and codigos. You will see him invite a woman to dance by moving his lips–vamos. She happily responds with a smile and a nod.
During my first several visits to Buenos Aires, I closed my eyes while dancing in the milongas in order to focus on the music and my partner. Then in October 1999, I began dancing regularly with Miguel Angel Balbi in Club Gricel. He noticed I had my eyes closed when I danced with other men. He commented that I would eventually open my eyes while dancing. At the time I doubted I would change, and I told him so, but it happened just as he said it would. His gentle encouragement was all I needed. It happened as I realized the difference in enjoying others dancing.
Miguel Angel told me that it was customary years ago for women to keep their eyes open while dancing. Women can see where the man cannot-to his right and to the rear. We help our partners avoid collisions on the floor by using a slight pressure with the left hand on the man’s shoulder. This gentle signal is useful. If a woman turns her head to the right or closes her eyes, a man cannot rely on his partner for this information; he has to turn in order to check the space around him.
I remember one night several years at Club Almagro where I gave my partners absolutely no help at all. First I danced with Cacho with my eyes closed for the entire tanda, never opening them even between dances. I did the same for the next tanda with Jose Luis and a tanda with Alberto. Dancers must have thought this was strange behavior in the milonga-even I do now. I didn’t want to lose my concentration while dancing, so I never opened my eyes. I didn’t know what I was missing at the time. I had never closed my eyes dancing other ballroom dances, but it seemed practical for tango. I didn’t want to be distracted by others. It has taken years for me to be comfortable, and I never close my eyes completely.
A friend shared an experience with me. An Argentine couple advised opening her eyes while she danced. It was the first time she had heard this in her short time in tango, so she asked a milonguero for his advice on the subject. Alito gave it to her straight-tango is a social dance. We come to a milonga to be with each other and to see one another. Therefore, you should have your eyes open when you dance. You help the man navigate and avoid being bumped with a gentle squeeze with your hand on his shoulder.
The next time you enter a milonga, look around and see how many women have their eyes open. They are the ones who are enjoying the dancing of others and helping their partners navigate.
Revised as previously posted on Tango-L, November 15, 2000.
It took time for Graciela to return to the milongas after Pedro’s death. I’ve seen her dancing at Salon Sur and Lo de Celia. It can’t be easy to go dancing without your regular partner of so many years.
Previously posted on October 3, 2002 to Tango-L
David danced with Sally Potter in “The Tango Lesson.” See a clip http://lanuitblanche.wordpress.com/2008/09/25/the-poetics-of-space/
Music inspires us to dance. And tango is a dance for all ages. We don’t need years of training or a dancer’s body to dance tango. All you need is a love for the music, a partner, and lots of feeling. I plan to dance tango forever.
October 12, 1929 — July 30, 2008
Miguel and Delia were together the last eight years. Two years ago they went to Miami to visit her nephew, his wife and their son. Miguel continued working in a furniture store on San Juan near Boedo. He and Delia would go out dancing on Friday nights to Lo de Celia. They were always invited to Pocho’s birthday celebration at Nely’s house.
And at the milonga “Buenos Aires Tango Milonguero” in Mundo Latino on Esmeralda and Lavalle in 2001.